Ask, and you shall receive! Huh? Dont want?

I'm baffled! Really I am!

Aku jenis orang yang memang tak segan bertanya. In every sense possible.

When in doubts, aku akan bertanya dengan kawan-kawan, saudara, rakan sekerja, lecturers, boss, jiran sebelah, mamak restaurant, even strangers. Tak tau, buat cara tak tau - ask! Tak salahkan ringan mulut?

Ada jugak orang yang jenis berat mulut, susah nak bertanya.
Sebab - maybe dia penyegan, malu or just simply bodoh sombong.

Malu bertanya sesat jalan. Takpeee.....biarla sesat....10 kali pusing the same roundabout pun takpe! To stop the car and ask the locals for direction ......NEVER!

Heh....macam kenal jer orang yang seperti di atas! Sukati ko la!

Recently however, I just discovered a new species, yang tak boleh nak diclassifiedkan in either of the above categories.
Orang ni suka nak bertanya, mintak pendapat, pandangan dan nasihat. Good.
Tapi, belum habis dengar lagi penjelasan or suggestion or opinion yang orang itu sendiri request, dia dah reject bulat-bulat usulan dan pandangan tersebut.
Orang macam ni, aku panggil orang yang gatal mulut.

Contoh:

Jibek: Cik, tumpang tanya. Cik tau tak jalan nak pergi Oasis Cafe, seksyen 7?

Dukun Senah: Oasis Cafe? Tauuu. You jalan terus ajer, sampai raoundabout ambik pukul 9, Pastu terus lagi sampai traffic light. Take a right turn, you will see Oasis Cafe on your right.

Jibek: Eh, you salah laa. bukan dekat dengan Restaurant Maulana, lepas roundabout, amik pukul 3 kan?

Dukun Senah: Motif??? Hanjeng kaaannn!


Adeeii.... aku dah terkena. What baffled me the most, aku terkena dengan kawan sendiri. Macamana aku boleh ada kawan camni ar?
Kepada kawan aku sorang nih, meh aku bagi social guideline, what / what not to do when you ask for other people advice / opinion:


1) Kalau ko mintak nasihat dan pendapat orang lain, please at least listen first, then only decide, ko nak ambik jalan yang lurus dan sempit atau jalan yang bengkang bengkok tapi luas. Adab biar betul. Dah tua pun bodoh!

2) You don't have to agree with every opinion offered, sukati ko la kan.

3) You don't need to know dari mana datangnya opinion dan suggestion yang aku beri PERCUMA pada ko. There is no need for you to verify the source of my opinion, because ia hanyalah pendapat, bukan fakta, get it?

4) You don't even have to tell me, wether you think pendapat aku bernas ke tak, boleh diguna pakai or not. Aku tak perlu tau. Arrghh!

Bottom line, kalau ko tak nak dengar, kenapa nak tanya?? huh, huh? Kenapaaaa??

Friend, when you're down and troubled, you know I will try my very best to be by your side, listen tentatively to your melancholic stories, try to make connection with my own experience and offer you my two cents. That's what friends are for.
But when you dismissed me like you did, I feel like you don't deserve my sympathy or my support anymore. Honey, I may not know everything, but I may know something you don't.
Ko dah bagus sangat kan, hey..don't let me stop you! Buat la apa ko nak!

Wahhh..emo neehh!!

Baffled aku! Some people yang SAD macam sahabat aku nih, dia have to put other people down, just to make dirinya feel good. Pathetic kann. Orang macam neh, dia tak boleh kurang or equal dengan orang lain, sentiasa mahu menang, walaupun takde orang compete dengan dia. tskk..tskk..kesian...chill babe, just chill.

Haiihh....semoga aku, kau dan mereka tak tergolong dan terlibat dengan orang-orang camni...lagi! Letih!